Last week, I shared how out-of-control-excited Mr. Intensity was, when friends were here. [Sunday he was very disruptive at church, both in Sunday school, as well as Jr. Church. Both sets of teachers had to talk to us about his behavior!] So, today I tried to coach him (before the kids arrived) to hop like a bunny when he felt excited. It worked!! On several occasions I saw him hopping! I'm thankful for The Spirited Child book that has helped me see into my child's life.
Side note *I just have to share this:* Last week, I was complaining to Hubby about Mr. Intensity's intense, and sometimes out-of-control behavior. I tried to get Hubby to brainstorm with me as to how to help Mr. Intensity self-soothe, or calm himself. I shared the following story - (scroll down to the rest of the art group pictures if you don't care about this parenting problem of mine.)
On Thursday two kids came over to play while their mom took the baby to the doctor. I heard a loud "thump" like a slamming of a door (which is against the rules at our house.) I waited a few seconds to react, to see if it was an accident. The same noise came again from Mr. Intensity's room. By the time I made it to the top of the stairs, I heard the same LOUD noise a third time.
Upon entering his room, I asked, "What was that loud noise?"
He says, "I didn't hear a loud noise."
"Really?! I heard a very loud noise, like slamming of a door. Did you slam the door?"
"Nope."
At this time, one of the other children piped up to say, "He was running across the room and throwing his body against the door."
What the heck is wrong with this child?!!
So, I'm telling Hubby this scenario and he replies, "I remember in the 7th grade, being so excited that I was around my friends, I would bang my book against my head. It made a cool sound and it felt good."
ACK!! I have 8 more years of sensory integration?!! [Pam, I asked if you knew this info - he said, "No, I only did it at school when I was with my friends."]
whew. thanks for letting me dump. I just wanted y'all to have a bit of insight into my world. It's chaotic most of the time.
Back to our regularly scheduled program.
Below you'll see Mr. Intensity working with the cheap creative mom's version of metal insets. They're made of styrofoam chip board (not sure of the technical name.)
Below is our attempt for a ship in a bottle. It's blue water and vegetable oil with glitter/confetti in the center as ships. The kids thought these were totally fab. I added a bead of hot glue around the cap to keep it on.
[as I type, Mr. Intensity is laying in bed singing Nina, Pinta, Santa Maria!]
6 comments:
my hero! I am going to be sending you an email soon... lots to ask/share :)
I'm sorry, but I HAD to laugh out loud at the head-thumping story! Maybe it's genetic??? *grin*
Looks like a fun art group! My 5 yr old still does similar things when he is excited around new people. He starts banging himself in the head. Or if he's on the floor, headbanging the floor. He excited and showing off (?). Boys do some pretty dumb stuff.....I remember when I met my husband (16 yrs old), we were in groups boys and girls....and the boys took off running around the movie theater parking lot pounding on each other...
Whoa! I did not know that about my son, Julie. Strange
You gave me quite a chuckle. Boys..
I am going to remember that bunny rabbit thing! Both my kids could use that. I am Ethny's Cubbie teacher, and she gets so excited when we get there she gets WILD, and its quite embarassing... We'll have to try that.
It's good to find another mom doing montessori with a child with sensory integration issues! Thanks for sharing all your ideas!
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